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How to Bond with Baby for Working Moms

Sunday, August 27, 2017


This topic is the dilemma of all working moms out there including me. Returning to work after delivering the baby is a hard decision to make. You will feel whether you want to leave work to be a full time mother or go back to work and rock your career as well as help provide for the family. As in today's bad economy, both parents have to work to earn a living and baby expenses are EXPENSIVE! So with heavy hearts, we have to go back to work no matter we like it or not. 

However, leaving your baby after your maternity leave ends is a tough experience and to be honest, you will start to feel as if your bond with baby fade away. You become jealous with the babysitter or caregiver because your baby tends to spend more time with them than you. You also start to feel sad because you have to miss a lot of their early milestones. Well, no matter what happens remember that you are doing the best you can for your baby and having mother guilt is normal (I am still coping with it until this day so I understand you Moms) Let's check out how to bond with baby and still keep climbing your career with success. 


1. Quality Time vs Quantity


Since you are working moms, finding a huge amount of time to spend with baby is difficult because you spend your day time at work. Therefore, make sure that before you head off to work that you spend some time with your little one. Like me, I often head off early to work at about 6.00 am every morning and my little one still is sound asleep. So I give him soft kisses on the forehead and cheek while caressing his hair. And do not forget to spend time as soon as you arrive home from work by playing, laughing, hugging and give extra extra kisses so that your baby knows that you will always be there. Put away your phone, forget about work and make family time your priority after work hours.



2. Understand Baby Cues


Some people can naturally pick this up fast while others take some time. But you can pay attention to different types of gestures, body language and cries to detect what your baby is trying to say to you. As your baby grows fast and some changes will happen, always become familiar with these cues. You will definitely feel more close to your little one and lessen your worries.



3. Sleep and Eat with Your Baby


Like me, he sleeps beside me on my bed every single night since I delivered. I feel that I can keep my little one safer that way because I am a light sleeper. Even the slightest sound, twitch or movement from my baby, I am fast awake. But I will train my baby to sleep in his cot soon. You can also sing a bedtime lullaby and cuddle the LO. However, if you are putting your baby down for a nap during the day, just lay beside them even if you are not sleepy. 

Besides that, whenever you can feed your baby, do it! Talk with them and make a conversation with them during meal time. Look into your baby eyes and put your entire focus towards him/her.



4. Delay the Chores

Okay, being a working mom or not, chores around the house is a part of our life. However, since your baby hardly is with you during the day, spend your free time with your baby when they are awake. Delay those chores for awhile. You will definitely love the giggles, hugs and cries your little one does.  Get your spouse to give you a helping hand with chores too so everything gets done fast.


5. Be Consistent

A specific routine is a must to ensure that your baby understands when to wake up, eat, nap, bath and sleep. Although there are days when your baby may be cranky and does not want to let you go, do not make it a habit. 


6. Let It Go


Finally, let it go and do the best you can as a parent. Do not try to be perfect as it will make you feel more stressed. Just make the best of your life and never put yourself down for something that goes wrong (I know we moms tend to do that). 


So what are your ways in making the bond stronger with your baby? Please feel free to share your ways so working moms out there can learn a thing or two.





XOXO,

How to Work That Vintage Tee in Style

Friday, August 25, 2017
      

Hey, do you have a vintage inspired tee hanging in your closet or a new t-shirt you just do not how to wear it with style? Well, if you are someone who is looking to give that vintage tee of yours appear more edgy, there are some fashion tips to apply. As much as it easy to match that tee with a pair of jeans, there are exciting ways to boost that confidence of yours by picking out some extra pieces to complete your look from your own wardrobe. Let's take a look of some pieces that can definitely help turn a simple tee into something incredible.


1. Outerwear


 Outerwear is important in making your t-shirt appear more stylish. Rather than choosing a cardigan or hoodie, opt for a brave approach by layering up your tee with a nice leather jacket. Black is the easiest and safest choice to give you that 'in control' appearance. If you want a simpler touch, denim jackets can work its wonders as well.




2. Ripped Jeans

           

Give your outfit some rugged hint by wearing a pair of ripped jeans. The shaggy torn look is timeless and works great if you know how to pull it off. There are various designs of ripped jeans out there so select the design which suits your personal style. That ripped effect complements your vintage tee in the perfect way it can.





3. Perfect Footwear
                 
Who says that shoes aren't important? The right choice of footwear to match your whole outfit is what makes or breaks it. For the ladies who are aiming to get that tomboyish appeal can opt for some black boots while the ladies who want to give your edgy outfit a hint of sophistication can definitely rock on some high heels.



4. Swag~



Last but not least, your whole look will not be complete if you cannot carry it with confidence. Confidence is what makes a woman appear beautiful in the eyes of others. Therefore, show off your swag and walk out looking fly from head-to-toe.

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So share with us if you have any extra fashion tips to add to the mix in turning that vintage tee of yours with today's modern trends. Til, then.


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